This is not me. This is how people probably perceived me 10 years ago.
I was a massive nerd with a scientific background.
All my friends and I were socially awkward geeks with no knowledge about dating, relationships, or even basic communication.
I spent my teens and 20s lacking confidence in most aspects of life.
I was 22 when I stumbled upon my first girlfriend. She liked me, seduced me and I just went with it.
A few years later I similarly entered into my second relationship with the girl that would later become my wife. From the beginning, there were many red flags that I was unable to see, because I simply didn’t know enough about relationships, their dynamics, healthy communication, the human psyche, and how our minds work.
In my relationships, I had the mentality of scarcity. I would do anything to not lose that person, my girlfriend or wife.
I dragged myself through a marriage with a serious lack of communication and suffered a lot as a consequence. It was always bound to happen: my marriage failed.
So there I was, finding myself in my early 30s having had only those two relationships. I still did not know how or where to find a woman to connect with - a basic wish.
But I didn’t even know how to approach or talk to a women.
I began reading and studying all the material on relationships and dating that I could get my hands on. And I began to think: how do I even get in touch with women or people? Luckily this was the age of the internet and soon I came across an idea that blew my mind:
You can walk up to anyone, simply say “Hello!” and start a conversation.
Yes, you can also walk up to a woman that you fancy and say “Hello!”
It is so obvious now, but at the time, my mind was blown.
I spent many hours before I brought up the guts to walk up to the first woman and tell her “I thought you look nice, Hello!”
However, simply saying "hello" to a stranger isn't enough to connect with them and seduce them. You can likely relate to this: seduction is easier said than done.
Eventually, it took me a good one thousand hours and a lot of trial and error to get fully comfortable with this.
Many dates, true friendships and ultimately rewarding, healthy and functional relationships became reality for me in the following years.
By putting myself far out of my comfort zone I discovered and gathered many insights into seduction, relationships, and communication.
I developed a unique skill set through my experiences, my training, and a lot of inner work on my own mind facing my issues, trauma, and fears.
These days I mentor and coach both women and men to develop their own skills, to be more confident and more at peace with themselves. I also help them develop and succeed in relationships of all kinds.
Do you want to be able to walk up to any stranger anywhere to create the opportunity to connect with them to make friends, lovers, or partners?
Do you want to excel at work and have healthy and functional relationships due to great self-awareness and communication skills?
If the answer is yes, then this is what I can do for you.
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