This is me many years ago.
Do you see the awkwardness and sadness in my eyes?
I was uncomfortable around people all my life.
That's me: socially awkward, nerdy and anxious.
I was a wreck, constantly overanalysing everything and having no self-confidence whatsoever. I felt constant fear of other people's opinions about me.
To make matters worse, I was raised in an extremely religious and conservative background, where I was forced to commit several hours of my time weekly to praise God and live only for him. You can see me in the picture, all dressed up at the age of 15, ready to talk about Jesus.
As a result of all of this, I struggled every day with deep levels of shame and self-hate. I had desires normal for a teenage boy, but I had no way of expressing them in a healthy way.
I felt unworthy of love and couldn’t imagine that any girl could ever actually like me or find me attractive.
Despite the overwhelming fear and anxiety around girls, I found my first girlfriend at the age of 16.
It was an absolute miracle and the only reason it happened was: we met through shared religion.
Within that unusual religious community, I was relatively popular and she was interested enough to ignore a lot of issues I had around attracting girls.
However, when trying to date, we were consistently observed and investigated by other religious people in the community, especially my parents.
It was very clear that we would have to get married for our relationship to gain approval from everyone else.
And we did exactly that. This picture was taken on the day of our wedding when I was 19.
At the age of 23, I became disillusioned with my religion and began feeling deeply unhappy about the issues I had with attracting girls.
I was in a terrible marriage and the problems with self-worth and seduction did not disappear. Right after my 24th birthday, I abandoned the religion which I was brainwashed to believe in from an early age.
I stumbled upon Youtube channels of regular guys getting girls’ numbers and attracting them by being fun, natural but completely normal.
None of that fake, boring nonsense of canned lines and silly gimmicks.
Instead, I saw natural conversations, enjoyed by both the girls and the guys themselves.
Eventually, I found out that all these seemingly fun and natural guys started just like me.
They too were shy and terrible with people.
They too were crippled by social anxiety and didn’t know how to talk to anyone, let alone how to attract girls.
And yet they transformed into actually awesome men who were admired by millions of people around the world.
That’s when I realised: there is hope for me.
I realised that social skills can be learned, just like any other skill. And seduction is just one of the social skills that I desperately needed to master.
Around the same time, I started seeing psychologists to deal with issues troubling me since early childhood. My therapy lasted in total over 2 years and was one of the best things that has ever happened to me. In the middle of my therapy, I decided to buy online products dedicated to helping men cure social anxiety and improve their seduction skills.
At that moment I embarked on a long journey of learning how to become the man I always wanted to be. How do I overcome this crippling fear of other people’s judgement? How do I attract, connect with, and seduce women? How do I feel comfortable and calm in all social situations?
Over the next years, I experienced more dates, friendships, lovers, and relationships than I could have ever imagined.
I worked incredibly hard to become comfortable with others, to be the most fun and exciting version of myself.
In the end, all that hard work, all the pain, and dedication paid off 10 times more than expected.
Because I started out in such a terrible place and yet achieved exactly what I dreamed of, I know exactly every single step of this journey.
And that is why a few years ago I started helping men and women become who they truly want to be.
One fact which might surprise you is that even in my darkest moments, I have always been a very good teacher.
It is a family trait: both of my grandmothers and my mother were all amazing teachers. I used to tutor maths, English, and other subjects.
Now I coach people around the world how to be the best versions of themselves, how to attract, seduce, and keep women they truly desire.
Do you want to feel completely comfortable around those you find attractive?
Do you want to be able to deal with all social situations effortlessly?
Do you want to be a natural at attracting and seducing men or women you truly desire?
If the answer is yes, I know exactly what you need and I know exactly how to help you.
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